If I you have only known me for two months, you probably do not know that I am quite the sensitive, passionate, emo kind of guy who wears his heart on his sleeve. Thankfully (and fortunately) things have been very far from “dramatic” here for me here at Southern, which is quite the complete opposite of what I experienced back in my undergrad at Ryerson University in Toronto. I am glad I am done and done with that stage of life, even though it is hard to remember and impossible to forget
I have always been interested in understanding people and figuring out why they do what they do. I have a B.A. in Geographic Analysis, but in my undergrad I actually took a lot of elective courses from my school’s Psychology department — almost enough to have a minor in Psychology. Other than the introductory Perspectives in Psychology, I also took Abnormal Psychology, Psychology of Sports, Environmental Psychology, Understanding Society (Sociology) and my favorite, Psychology of Human Sexuality.
Even these days, I still pay extra-attention to people’s body language and eye contact, continually trying to decipher if their body language matches their speech, and if not, what they’re body language is really saying. I hope this character trait would be of some sort of benefit to ministry. I think it’s just the way I am wired, that I can be a very expressive person and subsequently, am very interested in what lies beneath human behavior. And if you really knew me, then you’d know that I am most intrigued by the behavior between significant others.
I love watching UFC, the Argos when they’re good, and the Leafs before they started sucking badly. However, I also have almost every novel by Nicholas Sparks (a novelist from North Carolina who is a professing Catholic). He is the author of the novels behind those really badly filmed tear-jerky chick-flick movies “A Walk To Remember” and “The Notebook“. I read both those books in their first edition paperbacks long, long, long before any movie studio even remotely considered making any Nicholas Sparks books into movies. (The work done on the movie version of “A Walk To Remember” left out a huge part of the Christian facet that was present in the novel; the movie version of “The Notebook” was better but still over-sexed to Hollywood standards and was not even close to being as powerful of a story as the book, imho. Fortunately, the movie version of “Message In A Bottle” came pretty close to the substance of the novel and didn’t tone down the maturity of the story or characters.)
I currently am only missing “Dear John” from my collection, which is about a relationship that surrounds the events of 9/11; I’m holding off from reading that one cause the added 9/11 emphasis makes it an extra-heavy leisurely read.
However, Nicholas Spark’s latest release arrived in the mail the other day, and it looks to be a new tale about love found and lost, and the choices we hope we’ll never have to make. I hope to start reading this one soon for leisure, once I finish True Believer:
by Nicholas Sparks
Travis Parker has everything a man could want: a good job, loyal friends, even a waterfront home in small-town North Carolina. In full pursuit of the good life— boating, swimming, and regular barbecues with his good-natured buddies—he holds the vague conviction that a serious relationship with a woman would only cramp his style.
That is, until Gabby Holland moves in next door. Despite his attempts to be neighborly, the appealing redhead seems to have a chip on her shoulder about him . . . and the presence of her longtime boyfriend doesn’t help.
Despite himself, Travis can’t stop trying to ingratiate himself with his new neighbor, and his persistent efforts lead them both to the doorstep of a journey that neither could have foreseen. Spanning the eventful years of young love, marriage and family, THE CHOICE ultimately confronts us with the most heartwrenching question of all: how far would you go to keep the hope of love alive?
If you have never read a Nicholas Sparks book, I highly recommend it! You’ll certainly feel refreshed afterwards, I can almost guarantee it 